a small-world experiment: my proto-90’s baby
All of us in NetRhets spent a couple of weeks reading Duncan Watts’ Six Degrees earlier this semester, which works through the formation of his contribution to network theory. Most everyone knows the six degree theory, thanks to Six Degrees of Kevin Bacon: each of us is no more than six degrees distant from any other person.
So I’m thinking: there’s a friend of mine I haven’t seen in ten years. I haven’t been able to track her. My other friend who knew her and still lives in Little Rock can’t find her either. At least 75 people visit my blog each day, which means the chances that at least one of my readers would know of her would be pretty darned good.
And then I remembered that I already did this once, albeit inadvertantly. A couple of years ago, I wrote a post about rosemary in which I remembered a big healthy pet rosemary that belonged to a priest friend of mine. It turned out that he was the uncle of Michelle’s best friend. Michelle told L., who called A., who commented on my blog the next day and told me what had become of him and that rosemary.
So, people: I used to have a dear friend whose maiden name was Cynthia Crews, but we called her Sensua sometimes. We met while slinging pizzas and were friends for several years, one semester of which we spent shooting portraits of each other. She was funny and smart and hot, wore a Miss Brooks bob and went to New York to get her bottom lip pierced years before piercing became trendy (much less available in Arkansas). She went to Lollapalooza its first year, and turned me on to Jesus and Mary Chain, Dead Can Dance, and Jane’s Addiction. We had a crush on the same queer boy, who broke both of our hearts. She was a rather talented artist who showed and performed regularly on the local young-artists circuit, and when her parents divorced after a long marriage she decamped to Kansas City Art Institute. We wrote once or twice, and then never again. She came back and visited me once; I don’t remember what we did that day except go shopping for witch stockings. I’ve thought of her often ever since, and would love to know what’s become of her. If you see her, tell her that Mark misses her too.
Update: Collin found her! It had been several months since the last time I googled, and apparently I should have run one again today before embarrassing myself. I was hoping this would be resolved the by the knows-somebody-who-knows-somebody approach, but I’ll take it. Now, to email...
